As a working mother
mustahil lah aku bole jaga anak and buat kerja ofis at the same time kan
so, mana nak letak anak ni?
option left : sent him to babysitter @ sent him to school
Option 1 - sent him to babysitter, is what previously I'm doing..since born until 2 y/o, sent him to babysitter..tapi..sejak berpindah rumah..no longer a good option to me since kena berulang alik Selayang - Damansara Damai - Mutiara Damansara and all the way round
so, disebabkan itu, pilihan kedua muncul
which is sent him to kindy (I've made special entry about the kindy previously)
BUT
I've actualy made a wrong decision..totally wrong!! sebab pe?
I forgot to analyse further whether my kid is actually ready for school instead of just sent him buta tuli to school with a hope that they will take care of him just like the way I am..huhu
untuk mengelakkan kejadian seperti ini berulang kembali, here I list out points to be noted just before you decide to enrol them to kindy (regardless of whatever reason) berdasarkan my own experience:
1. Pengurusan Diri
berada di tadika memerlukan si kecil sekurang-kurangnya berkebolehan untuk memberitahu bila masanya nak "poo poo" and bila masanya nak "shishi".. lagi bagus kalau dah pandai mengenakan pakaian dan seluarnya dengan sendiri bila tiba time lepas mandi or lepas keluar tandas..macam anak aku, aku tak train lagi potty training..still ber pampers..so bila aku hantar tadika.end up petang aku ambil..pampers dah penuh sebakul..to make it worse..one day aku tak sedar dier ter"poo poo" dalam kereta with heavy pampers..and its BOCOR dalam kereta!!!..allahuakbar..panas mendidih je di dalam hati dah la penat baru balik kerja..huhu
kita kena paham..yang ada di tadika tu bukan sorang dua..bole jadi berbelas /berpuluh orang..2 orang teacher tak mampu nak focus kesemuanya dalam satu2 masa..
2. Bole Bergaul with Friends
Aqeil had a bit problem untuk mingle with friends..maybe sebab dari kecik asyik duduk umah babysitter..kawan pun ngan anak orang tu je..pastu asyik mata melekap je tengok game phone..takpun upin ipin kat tibi petang2..kat sekolah teacher would expect that si kecil ni bole bergaul..bole main sama2..tak berebut barang mainan..and bukannya asal mai sekolah je..menangis celah rak kasut..terlentang depan gate meraung2..bila masa nak belajar nih?? awal2 takpe la kot2 ada syndrome "homesick"..kalau hari2..tak ke cikgu pun bole darah tinggi dok kena pujuk..
3. Understand simple instruction
" Aqeil..buang sampah jap"..menonong je gi buang sampah..kadang2 aku tengok bukan buang dalam tong sampah betul2..tapi kat tepi tong sampah..huhu..he understand what I'm saying but sometimes hard to follow..so kat kindy, teacher expect si kecil bole follow instruction macam "beratur sebelum ambil makanan".."basuh tangan selepas makan"..anak aku tak berapa nak mengikut arahan sangat..lebih kepada " ikut suka aku la"..sampai teacher kena dukung nak bawak basuh tangan..pastu nak makan kena pegang mainan..teacher dah warn dah simpan mainan sebelum makan..adoiii
4. Boleh bertutur dengan baik
"Mama..tuuu..beyonnn".."mama..nak tusyuu".."mama..akit yutttt"..adoii..slang bahasa baby tuh ada lagi sikit walaupun aku selalu betulkan perkataan2 tuh....sebab pe kena bole bertutur dengan baik sebelum masuk tadika? penting tau..nanti si kecil bole bagitau sama ada ada kawan buli dier kat skola..dier ngah sakit perut ke..kalau tak pandai bertutur..susah cekgu nak faham the real situation..
5.Boleh membuat aktiviti pembelajaran
ada si kecil yang umo 2 tahun dah pandai mengira..dah pandai baca abc sampai z..Aqeil memang bole mengira 1-10 and baca abc sampai z..tetapi had umur dier still terbatas untuk mebolehkan dier buat aktiviti yang selalunyer ada dalam buku aktiviti di tadika...aku dah try bagi Aqeil pensel and kertas ajar lukis2..memang menghasilkan contengan yang indah..tapi sesuai la untuk age him..if at kindy, teacher usually expect si kecil mampu membuat aktiviti kerja ringkas macam...buat sambungan titik2 untuk jadi bentuk orang..jadi bentuk epal..bole focus kepada apa yang di ajar..takmola nanti teacher ajar kat depan..si kecil dok buat hal sendiri kat belakang
basically, its your son/daughter..you know what best for them
as for me, my kid is too young for kindy...I precious his "baby" moment..so I let him with babysitter back..let him be in "suasana kekeluargaan" kat umah babysitter aku instead of aku let him suddenly be independent in kindy tanpa kerelaanya..
the teacher once said to me " Anak you dah bole ikut arahan untuk beratur before makan"..."sayangnyer you keluarkan dier..nanti dier dah pandai mengira compare to others at his age".
sorry teacher..brilliant is not a matter..I concern more on his happiness and I don't want to force him..i am so sad seeing him crying everyday I fetch him at kindy..he is just not ready for it
*this is the real situation happen..apa yang baik jadi teladan..yang buruk is from me*
several pics taken by his teacher..I am so happy to see this but since he is not ready sebab on and off crying..so I pulled him out first..we'll see later if I enrol him back
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